Pillow Talk

T here is  something to be said about back door play and sex and before you start getting revolted this is a form of pleasure that some people enjoy and even others remain curious about. Perhaps your significant other raised the topic or asked the question and you know nothing about it. Never fear, in this article we share the five most important factors to consider when thinking about or exploring anal play or sex. 1. Communication  It's important to discuss the where, the when, the how (which is very important...Like which position is best. i.e. For beginners start with anal massage and the person being penetrated should be on top to control the pace and depth of the penetration). 2. Relaxation If you don't feel ready mentally and emotionally to try it out you will inadvertently tense up. This will create an unpleasant experience. So relaxing before and during penetration is important.  Try out meditation or have your partner give you a  body massage to help you relax. 3. Lub